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Unconditional Love.

What is unconditional, is it just without conditions? To have conditions in your life is to have circumstances, factors, situations.

What is Love, is it just giving of yourself? To have love in your life is to have commitment, attachment, passion.

It is an immutable natural Law that in order for us to be capable of Loving any other part of life, any person, place, condition or thing;
WE Must First LOVE Ourselves.

We put conditions on love that keeps us from loving others or ourselves. We question our gifts and value. Most of us on many levels do not feel valuable or deserving of the joy of life. We may intellectually desire it, but deep inside we don’t really believe we will ever experience it.

Look at yourself, examine the conditions of love you place on yourself or others. Take away the judgment of the circumstances, factors or situations, and give commitment, attachment and passion to the feelings you have for what is in your life, and your experiences.

The reward is unconditional love of yourself and others.

I am Divine happiness, Humor, Laughter, Joy and Fun.

I am Divine Confidence, Self-esteem, Trust, Integrity, honesty, Truth,
Reverence for all Life, acceptance, Tolerance and Inner Knowing.

I am Divine thoughts, words, actions and feelings.

I am Divine Illumination, perfect speech, communication, listening, writing and learning.

You are not helping anyone by being a martyr and sacrificing what is right for you just to make someone else happy. Even if you are giving them what they want, if you have had to sacrifice what is right for you in the process, it is not going to be for their highest good. When people make these self-sacrifices, it is because they want to be loved and approved of; they also want to be accepted. The problem is that you are actually invalidating yourself and negating your value as a human being when you make decisions to try and be what everybody else wants you to be, instead of who you are. Many times the thought of nurturing and pampering oneself is so foreign to people that they can’t even imagine what to do. Just begin by asking yourself, “What would make me feel really good right now? a walk in nature? Reading a good book? Taking a bubble bath? Relaxing with a warm cup of tea? Having a massage? Eating something healthy? Meditating? Taking a nap? Playing a game? Making love? Sharing time with someone I love? Praying? Communicating with a special friend? Writing my innermost thoughts? Doing my affirmations? Listening to an uplifting tape? Listening to music? Playing music? Interacting in a really fun way with my family?”, etc.

The important part of this step is that whatever you choose to nurture yourself must genuinely be for you, not just doing what other people want you to do. When you are taking time for the special nurturing and pampering of yourself, consciously acknowledge to yourself that this is what you are doing. Say to yourself, “I am doing this for me because I Love myself, and I am worth it. I am filling myself up with love and tenderness. This fills me with joy and a sense of fulfillment and happiness.”

“Stargate of the Heart” by Patricia Diane Cota-Robles.

Examine the conditions of love you place on yourself or others. Take away the judgment of the circumstances, factors or situations, and give commitment, attachment and passion to the feelings you have for what is in your life. The reward is unconditional love of yourself and others Angel Images |Table of Contents | Ask An Angel ||Prelude to Angels | Epilogue | Designed by Randi RauhTyler©